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Lebih Baik Berdiam Saja

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"Rasulullah s.a.w sedang duduk � duduk bersama Sayidina Abu Bakar as � Siddiq. Datang seorang lelaki lalu memarahi dan mencaci � hamun Sayidina Abu Bakar. Sahabat mulia itu diam sahaja, tenang mendengar tohmah dan seranah yang dihamburkan kepadanya. Melihatkan Sayidina Abu Bakar tidak bertindak apa � apa, lelaki itu menjadi semakin berang.

Suaranya semakin lantang mengherdik dan menengking Sayidina Abu Bakar. Namun, caci dan makian itu tidak juga menyebabkan Sayidina Abu Bakar marah. Apa lagi bertindak balas. Beliau duduk diam sahaja di samping Rasulullah s.a.w. Dibiarkan lelaki yang tidak dikenali itu terus galak dengan perangai bodohnya.

Barangkali berasa malu kerana gagal membuatkan Sayidina Abu Bakar bertindak sesuatu, lelaki itu mencaci sekali lagi. Kali ini lebih hebat dan lebih keras. Dituduh, dikeji dan difitnah dengan pelbagai tuduhan serta bahasa yang sungguh kesat, sehingga sahabat mulia itu berasa maruahnya tercabar.

Akhirnya perlahan � lahan Sayidina Abu Bakar bingkas. Melihat Sayidina Abu Bakar lah.a bangun, Rasulullah s.a.w yang sedari tadi berdiam tenang pun ikut bangun. Spontan menarik perhatian Sayidina Abu Bakar, lalu beliau pun bertanya, � Wahai Rasulullah ! Adakah kau juga mahu membelaku ?�

�Tidak,� jawab Rasul sepatah. �Waktu engkau berdiam diri tadi, malaikat berdiri di sampingmu untuk menafikan kata � kata lelaki itu. Tetapi apabila engkau bangkit untuk menjawab caciannya, malaikat pun beredar meninggalkanmu. Sekarang yang datang adalah syaitan.

Untuk apa syaitan datang ? Untuk mengapi � apikan lagi suasana yang sudah mulai panas. Untuk melagakan lagi keretakan yang sudah mulai pecah dan menyerpih.

Allah s.w.t mengingatkan dalam firman Nya : � Dan apabila mereka mendengar perkataan yang tidak berfaedah, mereka berpaling daripadanya dan berkata, � Bagi kami amal � amal kami dan bagimu amal � amalmu, kesejahteraan atas dirimu, kami tidak ingin bergaul dengan orang � orang yang jahil. ( Al � Qassas : 55 )

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orang kata besh..aper kata korang lak???

maka bergeraklah rombongan cik kiah dan cik wahid ke segenap bukit dan bukau mencari kampung untuk berteduh selama beberapa hari...setelah menelusuri bukau dan bukau, sungai, gunung dan ganang, maka sampailah rombongan beramai2 ke rumah tok kenali...


menyambut ketibaan rombongan ialah segerombolan hulubalang yang sedia menunggu dan diiringi kompang dan tarian menandakan ketibaan kami dinanti dan diraikan...

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huhu: Soalan Licik, Jawapan Cerdik

Soalan Licik, Jawapan Cerdik



Seorang guru, Cikgu Murni (Umur: 22) menghadapi masalah dengan salah seorang muridnya (Abu). Lalu guru ini bertanya kepada murid tersebut : "Apa
sebenarnya masalah awak, Abu?"

Lalu Abu menjawab, "Saya terlalu cerdik untuk berada di darjah 4, kakak saya menduduki UPSR dan saya lebih cerdik dari dia, maka saya seharusnya
berada di tempat yang sama juga!".

Cikgu Murni dah tak tertahan. Dia bawa Abu ke pejabat pengetua. Sementara Abu menunggu di ruang tamu, Cikgu Murni terangkan keadaan tersebut kepada
pengetua. Pengetua mengatakan yang dia akan berikan ujian kepada Abu dan jika Abu gagal menjawab, maka Abu harus kekal di darjah 3 dan berkelakuan
baik. Abu dibawa masuk ke pejabat Pengetua dan Cikgu Murni terangkan pada Abu dan Abu bersetuju untuk ambil ujian yang akan diberikan.

Pengetua : Apa 3 x 3?
Abu : 9
Pengetua : Apa 6 x 6?
Abu : 36

Pengetua terus bertanyakan soalan2 berdasarkan tahap pencapaian murid2 UPSR dan si Abu mampu menjawab tiap soalan yang diberikan. Lalu pengetua
memandang Cikgu Murni dan berkata, "Saya rasa murid ini sepatutnya berada di darjah 6", Lalu Cikgu Murni berkata pada pengetua, "Saya ada soalan saya
sendiri, boleh tak saya ajukan pada Abu?". Pengetua dan Abu bersetuju.


Cikgu Murni : Apa yang lembu ada 4 di badan, tapi saya cuma ada dua?
Abu : (berfikir) Kaki

Cikgu Murni : Apa yang ada di dalam seluar kamu tapi tidak pada seluar saya?
Abu : Saku

Cikgu Murni : Apa yang bermula dengan huruf "K" akhir dengan "A", ianya berbulu, berbentuk oval, nyaman dan mengandungi lapisan nipis keputihan?
Abu : Kelapa

Cikgu Murni : Apakah yang masuk keras dan berwarna "pink", bila keluar lembik dan melekit?

Mata Pengetua terbuka luas dan sebelum sempat dia menahan, siAbu terus menjawab.

Abu : Gula-gula getah (Bubblegum)

Cikgu Murni : Apa yang mereka lakukan, lelaki secara berdiri, wanita secara duduk dan anjing secara tiga kaki?

Mata Pengetua sekali lagi terbuka sangat2 luas dan sebelum dia sempat hendak menahan si Abu terus menjawab.

Abu : Bersalaman

Cikgu Murni : Baik, sekarang saya akan ajukan soalan berbentuk siapakah saya, okay?
Abu : Baik Cikgu

Cikgu Murni : Awak memasukkan batang kedalam saya. Awak ikat saya untuk saya berdiri. Saya kebasahan sebelum awak.

Pengetua kelihatan resah dengan soalan yang diajukan oleh Cikgu Murni.

Abu : Khemah

Cikgu Murni : Jari memasuki saya. Awak menggesel-gesel saya bila awak teringatkan saya. Lelaki idaman akan mendapat saya dahulu.

Pengetua semakin resah dan tidak selesa. Lantas terus meneguk segelas Nescafe 3in1.

Abu : Cincin perkahwinan

Cikgu Murni : Saya ada bermacam-macam saiz. Bila saya sakit saya akan meleleh. Bila saya keluar, banyak tisu yang akan digunakan. Bila awak hembuskan saya, akan berasa lega.

Sekali lagi pengetua rasa amat resah dengan soalan yang di ajukan oleh Cikgu Murni dan ingin membantah, tapi si Abu mendahuluinya.

Abu : Hidung

Cikgu Murni : Saya batang yang keras. Hujungnya tajam. Saya akan datang dan masuk dengan lajunya.
Abu : Anak panah

Cikgu Murni : Sekarang saya akan ajukan soalan dalam Bahasa Inggeris, okay?
Abu : Okay

Cikgu Murni : What word starts with a 'F' and end in 'K' that means lot of heat and excitement?
Abu : Firetruck

Cikgu Murni : What word starts with a 'F' and ends in 'K' & if you dont get it you have to use your hand.
Abu : Fork

Cikgu Murni : What is it that all men have one of. It's longer on some men than on others, the pope does not use his, and a man gives it to his wife
after they are married?
Abu : Surname

Cikgu Murni : What part of the man has no bones but has muscles, lots of veins and loves pumping?
Abu : Heart

Pengetua menghembuskan nafas kelegaan bila mendengar jawapan yang diberikan oleh si Abu, lantas berkata "Baik hantar murid ini ke Universiti Malaya;
jawapan yang saya fikirkan semuanya salah".

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gagagagagaga

Baca sampai habis. Laughing

Hubungan antara manusia & buah-buahan

Jangan suka mendedah tubuh
Jadilah seperti jagung, jangan seperti gajus.
Jagung membungkus bijinya yang banyak, sedangkan gajus mempamerkan
bijinya yang cuma satu.

Setia terhadap pasangan
Jadilah seperti pohon pisang.
Pohon pisang kalau berbuah hanya sekali seumur hidupnya.

Kecantikan dalaman
Jadilah seperti durian, jangan seperti kedondong.
Durian walaupun di luarnya penuh kulit yang tajam, tetapi di dalamnya lembut Dan manis.
Berbeza dengan kedondong, di luarnya licin Dan berkilat, tetapi di dalamnya Ada biji yang berduri.

Jaga kesucian dalam bergaul
Jadilah seperti sengkuang, walaupun hidup dalam tanah Dan selut, tetapi umbinya tetap putih bersih.

Selalu bertindak adil
Jadilah seperti tandan petai, bukan tandan rambutan.
Tandan petai membahagi makanan sama rata ke biji2nya, semua seimbang, tidak seperti rambutan, Ada yang kecil Ada yang besar.

Semakin tua semakin bijaksana
Jadilah seperti cili. Semakin tua,semakin pedas.

Jangan bermuka-muka
Jadilah seperti buah manggis.
Buah manggis bisa diteka isinya dari bahagian bawah buahnya.

Menjadi banyak manfaat
Jadilah seperti buah dada.
Kerana selain bermanfaat sebagai sumber tumbesaran buat anak, IA mampu menjadi alat rekreasi buat bapaknya juga!

Opsss! Jgn marah yek ...
Laughing Laughing

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Safety and Health Topics: Pandemic Influenza




A pandemic is a global disease outbreak. An influenza pandemic occurs when a new influenza virus emerges for which there is little or no immunity in the human population; begins to cause serious illness; and then spreads easily person-to-person worldwide. A worldwide influenza pandemic could have a major effect on the global economy, including travel, trade, tourism, food, consumption and eventually, investment and financial markets. Planning for pandemic influenza by business and industry is essential to minimize a pandemic's impact.It is difficult to predict when the next influenza pandemic will occur or how severe it will be. Wherever and whenever a pandemic starts, everyone around the world is at risk. Countries might, through measures such as border closures and travel restrictions, delay arrival of the virus, but cannot stop it.
During a pandemic, transmission can be anticipated in the workplace, not only from patient to workers in health care settings, but also among co-workers in general work settings. A pandemic would cause high levels of illness, death, social disruption, and economic loss. Everyday life would be disrupted because so many people in so many places become seriously ill at the same time. Impacts could range from school and business closings to the interruption of basic services such as public transportation and food delivery.Education and outreach are critical to preparing for a pandemic. Understanding what a pandemic is, what needs to be done at all levels to prepare for pandemic influenza, and what could happen during a pandemic helps us make informed decisions both as individuals and as a nation. Should a pandemic occur the public must be able to depend on its government to provide scientifically sound public health information quickly, openly and dependably

What is H1N1 (swin

e flu)?

H1N1 (previously referred to as “swine flu”) is a respiratory illness. This new virus was first detected in people in the United States in April 2009. Other countries, including Mexico and Canada, have reported pe

ople sick with this new virus. This virus is spreading from person-to-person, probably in much the same way that regular seasonal influenza viruses spread.


Why was the H1N1 virus originally called “swine flu”?

This virus was originally referred to as “swine flu” because laboratory testing showed that some of the genes in this new virus were similar to influenza viruses that have occurred in pigs. But further study has shown that this H1N1 virus is very different from what normally circulates in North American pigs. In fact, this strain is unique and was not previously recognized in either people or pigs.

How is H1N1 spread?

Flu viruses generally spread from person to person, often through the moisture in coughs and sneezes. This can happen when droplets from a cough or sneeze of an infected person are propelled through the air and deposited on the mouth or nose of another individual. Influenza viruses may also be spread when a person touches respiratory droplets on another person or an object and then touches their own or another’s mouth or nose. You cannot get H1N1 from handling raw pork or eating cooked pork.

Is the H1N1 virus spread through animals?

It appears that the virus is spreading from humans to humans. No evidence indicates that any of the human illnesses resulted from contact with pigs or other animals.

Isn’t it better to be cautious?

According to the most reputable health organizations, including the World Health Organization, U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, U.S. Departments of Agriculture and U.S. Health and Human Services, the H1N1 flu strain cannot be transmitted by eating pork; it is not a food safety issue. To be cautious, you need to take measures to avoid coming into contact with the virus, such as frequent hand washing. Visit elcerdoesbueno.com for more information.

It doesn’t seem clear to me.

The facts are clear. The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) has not found any evidence to indicate that any of the illnesses resulted from contact with pigs. The CDC web site states, “Swine influenza viruses are not spread by food. You cannot get swine influenza from eating pork or pork products. Eating properly handled and cooked pork products is safe.”

When should I seek medical care?

Signs that you should seek immediate attention include: difficulty in breathing or chest pain, discoloration of the lips, vomiting and inability to keep liquids down, dizziness, absence of urination or seizures.

Can pork be part of a healthy diet?

Absolutely. Lean cuts such as tenderloin and pork chops rival chicken as an ideal protein source. Pork provides many under-consumed nutrients such as potassium, phosphorous and vitamin B12, a vitamin found only in animal foods.

Source: National Pork Board

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kakiku...


Safety Tips

WANITA dan dunia fesyen tidak dapat dipisahkan. Ada segelintir

wanita gemar bergaya sehingga sanggup membelanjakan banyak

wang semata-mata untuk mendapatkan rekaan terkini kasut, beg

tangan atau pakaian.

Namun, antara sedar atau tidak fesyen mampu menjejaskan

kesihatan kita apatah lagi ia boleh menyebabkan beberapa penyakit

sampingan yang boleh mengganggu kehidupan seharian.

Kasut tumit tinggi contohnya, adalah aksesori mesti ada bagi kaum

wanita. Terdapat pelbagai rekaan, warna dan jenama dengan harga

berbeza dijual di pelbagai pusat beli-belah. Kasut tumit tinggi

memberikan tekanan pada lutut dan kajian dilakukan Persatuan

Ortopedik Kaki Amerika Syarikat menyatakan bahawa seorang

wanita yang mengenakan sepatu bertumit tinggi sekurangkurangnya

tiga sentimeter (sm) akan meningkatkan tekanan pada

lutut sehingga 26 peratus.

Keadaan ini akan mengundang penyakit osteoporosis dan penyakit

sendi. Malah, ia juga boleh mengakibatkan rasa sakit pada kuku,

bengkak jari kaki sehingga menjadi radang kulit, menyebabkan

kesakitan pada punggung dan inflamasi pada tendon sehingga

mengundang kesakitan pada bahu, lutut, siku, pergelangan kaki juga

tangan.

Bagi mengelak mengalami penyakit itu, persatuan berkenaan

menyarankan wanita supaya memakai sepatu dengan tumit tidak

melebihi dua sm dan tempoh pemakaiannya tidak melebihi tiga jam

secara berterusan.

Menurut satu kajian yang dijalankan di London, tindakan memakai

kasut tumit tinggi membolehkan seseorang wanita nampak bergaya

tetapi ia juga menjejaskan peluang si pemakai untuk menimang

anak.

Gaya berdiri yang tidak seimbang setiap kali memakai kasut

bertumit setinggi 12.7 sentimeter memberi kesan kepada organ

dalaman dan kesuburan wanita.

Sumber dipetik dari Harian Metro pada 25/03/2009

Lebih mengejutkan apabila sesetengah reka bentuk terbaru kasut

tumit tinggi boleh membuatkan rambut gugur. Ini berlaku kerana

kedudukan pinggul cuba ditolak ke depan oleh pemakai

membolehkan isi perut bergerak ke depan, menimbulkan

keadaan yang ramai wanita menyangka ia adalah ..perut buncit'.

Keadaan itu memampatkan organ dalaman dalam keadaan yang dikenali

sebagai visceroptosis dan ia turut memberi kesan pada leher, belakang,

sakit bahu, sakit kepala malah keguguran rambut.

Visceroptosis ialah keadaan yang biasanya menyerang wanita memakai

korset atau barut tetapi kini ia menemui ..mangsa' baru dengan

menjadikan kaki sebagai sasaran.

Menurut kajian sama, pemakaian kasut tumit tinggi juga boleh

menyebabkan masalah kesuburan dan kitaran haid serta fungsi bahagian

atas tubuh badan.

Selain kasut tumit tinggi, pemakaian tas tangan juga boleh menjejaskan

kesihatan terutama yang besar dan berat kerana ia boleh menyebabkan

tekanan pada tulang.

Kajian pakar tulang mendapati barangan yang banyak di dalam tas

tangan akan memberikan tekanan kepada tulang bahu sekali gus

menyakitkan otot pada satu sisi badan.

Lebih serius, tekanan itu akan mendatangkan kesan kepada punggung

dan bahu. Untuk mengatasinya, anda boleh cuba menggunakan beg

sandang belakang yang mampu memuatkan pelbagai barangan secara

seimbang pada kedua-dua belah bahu.

Jika anda masih enggan menukar kepada beg gaya sandang itu, cuba

gilirkan letak tali beg sandang bagi mengurangkan kesakitan otot pada

hanya sebelah bahu.

Satu lagi kaedah yang dapat membantu adalah usahakan untuk berdiri

tegak ketika menyandang tas tangan dan sesekali rehatkan bahu anda

dengan cara meletakkan beg di bawah jika ada kesempatan.

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burung oh burung

/hibur, libur, tawa/

Ada seorang lelaki tua yang hobinya memelihara banyak burung.
Pada suatu pagi, semua burung kesayangannya telah hilang.
Merasa si pencuri sudah keterlaluan,
lelaki tua itu pun membawa masalah ini di perjumpaan mingguan di kampungnya.

Lelaki tua : “Siapa disini yang ada burung?”
Seluruh penduduk laki-laki
segera berdiri. Menyedari kesilapannya dalam cara bertanya,
lelaki itumenambah “bukan itu maksud saya”.
Lalu di ajukan soalan yang lain…….

“maksud saya adalah, siapa yang pernah lihat burung?”
Maka seluruh penduduk wanita berdiri. kerana menyedari pertanyaannya masih
tidak betul, maka dengan muka merah dia menyambung, “maaf, bukan itu maksud saya”.
Sekali lagi di cuba bertanya,

“maksud saya adalah siapa yang pernah lihat burung yang bukan miliknya”?
Separuh penduduk wanita berdiri.

Muka lelaki itu makin merah, dan juga makin gugup, segera berkata lagi,
“maaf sekali lagi, bukan ke arah itu pertanyaan saya, maksud saya adalah,
siapa yang pernah lihat burung saya?”

Lalu, Isteri lelaki itu pun pun berdiri….sambil tersipu2 malu memandang suaminya..

suami: 73t6rqw89cry6893409=-9-...............

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things that can change our life

YOU COME INTO THIS WORLD WITH NOTHING BUT YOURSELF,YOU ALSO LEAVE THIS WORLD WITH NOTHING BUT YOURSELFSO DO WANT YOU WANNA DO, THE WAYS IN WHICH U WANTTO AND ABOVE ALL…BE HAPPY AND FREE39 little things I really believe in…

1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2. Learn the rules, then break some.
3. Don’t believe all you hear.
4. Don’t spend all you have.
5. Don’t sleep all you want.
6. When you say, “I love you”, mean it.
7. When you say, “I’m sorry”, look the person in the eye.
8. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
9. Believe in love at first sight.
10. Never laugh at anyone’s dreams.
11. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.
12. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
13. Don’t judge people by their relatives.
14. Talk slowly, but think quick.
15. When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, “Why do you want to know?”.
16. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
17. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck.
18. Say “God bless you” when you hear someone sneeze.
19. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
20. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
21. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
22. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
23. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
25. Spend some time alone.
26. Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
27. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
30. Trust in God but lock your car.
32. In disagreements with loved ones, deal with a current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
33. Read between the lines.
34. Be gentle with the earth.
35. Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
36. Mind your own business.
37. Don’t trust a person who doesn’t close his or her eyes when you kiss them.
38. Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
39. Do something everyday which really really scares you
40. Remember what you arguing about, before you get caught up in who’s right and who’s wrong

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Olny srmat poelpe can

Olny srmat poelpe can. I aslo cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it denos't mtater in waht oredr the ltetres in a wrod are, the olny iprnoatmt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit a porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh? yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! if you can raed tihs psas it on

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Jom bermadu















Ahmad Dhani - Madu 3 ( tiga )

Aii... senangnya dalam hatikalau beristri dua
Oh seperti dunia
Ana yang punya

Kepada istri tua
Kanda sayang padamu
Oh kepada isteri muda
I say i love you

Istri tua merajuk
Balik ke rumah istri muda
Kalau dua-dua merajuk
Ana kawin tiga

Mesti pandai pembohong
Mesti pandai temberang
Oh tetapi jangan sampai
Hai pecah tembelang

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Kesilapanku...

besar kesilapanku, besar lagi kesilapanmu
hampa yang kau rasakan, hampa lagi perasaanku
kau cuba menyatakan aku membuat kesilapan
yang tak mungkin kau maafkan lagi
kutak mungkin kau perlu disisi

besar kesalahanku, besar lagi keegoanmu
berkali ku beri alasan, berkali-kali kau menolaknya
kau inginku menyalakan diri ini bagai lilin
dan terbakar oleh perbuatanmu

suasana sepi kini menambahkan hening di dalam hatiku
mengadil sikapmu, biar di jiwamu kutelah tiada
di waktu begini diusik kenangan silam yang bertandang
lalu kubiarkan, ia menabahkan hati ini

* kekasihku cukup engkau buatku begini
luka ini usah engkau berdarahkan kembali
aku masih cinta padamu, aku masih setia padamu
kembalilah engkau kepadaku seperti dahulu

di dalam rindu ku menangis, dalam kalbu ku terasa
teringatmu dikala derita yang memisahkan kita
di dalam sendu ku berseru, yang terukir dalam hatiku
kekasih bukalah pintu untuk sekali ini



aku cinta kepadamu

besar kesilapanku, besar lagi kesilapanmu
hampa yang kau rasakan, hampa lagi perasaanku
kau cuba menyatakan aku membuat kesilapan
yang tak mungkin kau maafkan lagi
kutak mungkin kau perlukan lagi
disisi.....

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Best ways to make other people happy


One of the best ways to makeyourself happy is to make other people happy;

One of the best ways to makeother people is to be happyyourself.

Everyone accepts the Second Splendid Truth, Part A; the Second Splendid Truth, Part B often isn’t as clear to people. But to focus on Part A here – how do you know if you’re making other people happy? What are some signs?

Are the following statements true for you:

  • Do people seem to feel comfortable confiding in you?
  • Do people follow your recommendations?
  • Are you a source of material comfort or security for someone else?
  • Do people whom you’ve introduced often go on to have a continuing relationship?
  • Do people seem to drift toward you? Join a conversation that you’re having, sit down next to you at a meeting?
  • Are you providing opportunities for other people – job leads, blind dates, contacts in a new city?
  • Do people whom you hardly remember go out of their way to greet you warmly? Say, an intern who worked in your office three years ago, or a former student?
  • Do people seem to want to connect with you -- by making plans or by emailing, calling, or texting?
  • Do people seem energized by you? Do they smile and laugh in your presence?
Notice some items that are not on the list:
  • Do people remember your birthday?
  • Do people give you presents (say, for Mothers’ Day, or in recognition of an important milestone)?
  • Do people express appreciation and gratitude for your efforts?

Even if you’re making people happy, they don’t always respond by making these gestures. (Which can be annoying.)

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If You're Not The One (Daniel Bedingfield)


If You're Not The One (Daniel Bedingfield)

If you are not the one then why does my soul feel glad today?

If you are not the one then why does my hand fit yours this way?
If you are not mine then why does your heart return my call
If you are not mine would I have the strength to stand at all

I never know what the future brings
But I know you are here with me now
We all make it through
And I hope you are the one I share my life with

I don't want to run away but I can't take it, I don't understand
If I'm not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am?
Is there any way that I can stay in your arms?

If I don't need you then why am I crying on my bed?
If I don't need you then why does your name resound in my head?
If you're not for me then why does this distance maim my life?
If you're not for me then why do I dream of you as my wife?

I don't know why you're so far away
But I know that this much is true
We'll make it through
And I hope you are the one I share my life with
And I wish that you could be the one I die with
And I pray in you're the one I build my home with
I hope I love you all my life

I don't want to run away but I can't take it, I don't understand
If I'm not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am
Is there any way that I can stay in your arms?

'Cause I miss you, body and soul so strong that it takes my breath away
And I breathe you into my heart and pray for the strength to stand today
'Cause I love you, whether it's wrong or right
And though I can't be with you tonight
And know my heart is by your side

I don't want to run away but I can't take it, I don't understand
If I'm not made for you then why does my heart tell me that I am
Is there any way that I could stay in your arms?

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Positive Thinking Your Key to Success



Positive thinking brings inner peace, success, improved relationships, better health, happiness and
satisfaction. It also helps the
daily affairs of life move more smoothly, and makes life look
bright and promising.

Positive thinking is contagious. People around you pick your mental moods and are affected accordingly. Think about happiness, good health and success, and you will cause people to like you and desire to help you, because they enjoy the vibrations that a positive mind emits.

In order to make positive thinking yield results, you need to develop a positive attitude toward life, expect a suc

cessful outcome of whatever you do, b

ut also take any necessary actions to ensure your success.

Effective positive thinking that brings results is much more than just repeating a few positive words, or telling yourself that everything is going to be all right. It has to be your predominant mental attitude. It is not enough to think positively for a few moments, and then letting fears and lack of belief enter your mind. Some effort and inner work are necessary.
Are you willing to make a real inner change?
Are you willing to change the way you think?Are you willing to develop a mental power tha

It can positively affect you, your environment and the people around you?

Here are a few actions and tips to help you develop the power of positive thinking:

Always use only positive words while thinking and while talking. Use words such as, 'I can', 'I am able', 'it is possible', 'it can be done', etc.

Allow into your awareness only feelings of happiness, strength and success
.Try to disregard and ignore negative thoughts. Refuse to think s
uch thoughts, and substitute them with constructive happy thoughts.

In your conversation use words that evoke feelings and mental images of strength, happiness and success.

Before starting with any plan or action, visualize clearly in your mind its successful outcome. If you visualize with concentration and faith, you will be amazed at the results.

Read at least one page of inspiring book every day.

Watch movies that make you feel happy.

Minimize the time you listen to the news and read the papers.

Associate yourself with people who think positively.

Always sit and walk with your back straight. This will strengthen your confidence and inner strength.

Walk, swim or engage in some other physical activity. This helps to develop a more positive attitude.

Think positive and expect only favorable results and situations, even if your current circumstances are not as you wish them to be. In time, your mental attitude will affect your life and circumstances and change them accordingly.

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How to be a good listener

    How to be a good listener

Step

1. If you are heavily engaged in an activity and someone comes to you unexpectedly, do one of two things. Either stop what you are doing and give them your full attention or ask them to please come back later because you cannot be interrupted now.

2. If the person returns later, stop what you are doing, look at them and give them your full attention.

3. Never interrupt the person before they are finished talking.


4. Never judge the person that's talking to you. Be open to suggestions and solutions.

5. If you are having a conversation that requires details that you know you won’t remember, write them down on paper.

6. If the person requires an answer that is beyond your knowledge or expertise, refer them to someone else. Don’t just brush off what they are talking about because you don't have the answer.

7. When someone is talking to you, don’t walk away when they are talking. Look at their eyes so they can know that you are listening and that what they are saying is important.

8. Never mock what the person has to say.

9. Learn to read in between the lines so that you can hear what they are really saying.

  1. Learn How To Be A Good Listener, Listening Skills Show Respect To The Speaker

    Learn How To Be A Good Listener, Listening Skills Show Respect To The Speaker

    Have you ever been in a middle of an interview or even in a conversation in that matter, when the person you are talking to just gets up and walks away? Or fiddles in the chair? Or even looks everywhere but at you? How does this make you feel? Most people feel hurt. The listener acts as though he or she is absolutely not interest in what the speaker has to say or already said. And yet, when it is their turn to talk, they expect, if not demand, attention.

    Have you ever been in a heated conversation and realize that your partner has no idea what you have been saying? It could very well be the manner that you are delivering the argument or speech, or it may even be that your partner is a poor listener. Poor listening skills seem to be the majority and not the minority of fresh graduates. Since Malaysia is so used to being fast paced in all matters, we often forget how to slow down and just listen.

    So how can one learn to be a good listener? Below are some common tips that can help poor listeners work wonders in all situations not only during interviews.

    1. Learn to listen by using lots of eye contact:
      Let the speaker know that you are interested in what is being said
    2. Be slow to speak:
      Sometimes, people speak to think out loud. Sometimes, all they really want is a shoulder to lean on and a willing ear to listen. By being slow to speak, you are allowing the speaker to work out or solve problems themselves. Also, one must think before he/she speaks
    3. Keep the secret:
      People trust you with information because they believe that you will not gossip and spread slander. Keep their trust by keeping things private; between the two of you
    4. Be Attentive:
      Learn to actively listen. Let the speaker know that you are actually listening, although you are not speaking, by saying things like, "yeah, hmmm, I know, that's true, okay, that makes sense," and so forth. This shows that you are in tune with what they are saying and also following what they are saying
    5. Show Gratitude:
      Let the speaker know that you feel honored that they were able to open up to you. If nothing personal was said, than let the speaker know that you had a great time listening and that you learned a lot. In a society that forgets to show gratitude, a simple use of kind words, can make someone's day a little brighter. Showing kindness and appreciation will also help you with the interviewer
    6. Stay in Tune:
      Do not simply disappear in the middle of any conversation because your mind wandered. Whether you actually get up and walk away or let your mind wander elsewhere, it is just being plain rude. If you find that your attention span is small, actively repeat what is being said to you as the speaker is speaking

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